Grief Happens...Ideas for Teens (updated for 2005)
From Idaho Chapter of the MISS Foundation

Editor's Note: Nancy & Peter Grayson over at the ID Chapter of the MISS Foundation have been doing phenomenal things for bereaved families. Several times in the past, they organized and offered workshops called "Grief Happens" which were just for the grieving teens and young adults who are enduring the death of sibiling. Not only have I heard how wonderful the workshop was, but I also got the following information via email after the workshop. This is a wonderful list of resources and ideas for bereaved teens, and I absolutely had to share it with all of you here at Kota! I also hear that this information is provided in print format to the funeral homes and caregivers in their area and that it is one of the most requested. It is definitely valuable for families in need. If, after you read this, you want to be in touch with Nancy & Peter, you can email them at missfoundationidaho@msn.com

Grief Happens Resource List:
for grieving teens and young adults

Web sites

www.teenlineonline.org - Click to yellow pages to death/dying/grief page: for teens
www.grievingchild.org - Dougy Center - for youth and to help youth
www.missfoundation.org - Bereaved children link - for kids and those that care
www.gp4teens.com - Guide Post for Teens - Christian based, good information

Reading/Books

Fire in My Heart, Ice in My Veins - E. Traisman
When Death Walks In - M. Scrivani
Help for the Hard Times: Getting Through Loss - E. Hipp
Healing Your Grieving Heart for Teens: 100 ideas - A. Wolfelt
Teens Can Bounce Back - Diana L. James www.dianaljames.com
Grief books for check out - Nazarene Family Library - Boise Community Center 3852 N. Eagle Road, Boise 327-0608

Recommendations/Ideas

Talk with your school counselor, teachers or pastor
Talk to your family, friends, anyone that will let you…..get it out
Consider talking with a grief counselor
Write - Listen to Music - Draw - Exercise and Sleep
And CRY as much as you need to

What can you do with Your Grief?

A MISS Kindness project - a special kindness done in memory of who you’re missing.
Start a Grief Support Group at school or church.
Join a teen grief chat or sharing forum on the Internet.
Volunteer with Grief Happens - or do something you care about for others.

Tips for those that care about you

Read: Children Grieve, Too - J. Johnson - go to www.centering.org for more books
Make the time and LISTEN
HUG and be there for as long as it takes...

More web sites and phone numbers:

www.reachout.com.au - Excellent! Australian based
www.compassionatefriends.org - Sibling resources, when a sibling has died
www.boisestate.edu/suicideprevention - Education & support with suicide issues
800 426-3532 - prevention hotline & information
www.centering.org - Grief Resources, 402-553-1200
www.centerforloss.org - The 100 Idea Series Books and more, 800-922-6051
Life's Doors Hospice - Offers no charge support groups in Boise, call 344-6500
Grief Happens support meetings - call 861 2407 for information

 

Note from Idaho Chapter MISS Foundation
Your feedback & questions are appreciated. Please be in touch at missfoundationidaho@msn.com . This resources was brought to you by MISS Foundation Idaho: Mothers and Fathers In Sympathy and Support and is a MISS Kindness Project in Memory of JOEL.

MISS Foundation Information
The M.I.S.S. Foundation was founded in 1996 and is an international non-profit 501(c ) 3 organization
which offers immediate and on-going support for families experiencing the death of a child from any
cause. We offer local support groups, bilingual support, resources, free funeral planning, peer counseling, newsletters, camps for grieving kids, and a wonderful website (www.missfoundation.org). We also believe strongly in community education and awareness. We offer various programs that range from healthy baby education to bereavement support to annual conferences and seminars for medical professionals helping provide psychosocial intervention to grieving families . For more information, please contact the National MISS Foundation offices at 623.979.1000.

   
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